Sunday, March 13, 2022

Final Bracket Prediction


1 Seeds                Kansas, Gonzaga, Arizona, Baylor

2 Seeds                Tennessee, Duke, Villanova, Kentucky

3 Seeds                Auburn, Purdue, UCLA, Wisconsin

4 Seeds                Texas Tech, Iowa, Illinois, Providence

5 Seeds                Houston, Arkansas, UConn, Seton Hall

6 Seeds                St. Marys, Boise State, Memphis, USC

7 Seeds                Murray St., San Diego State, Texas, LSU

8 Seeds                Colorado State, Creighton, Marquette, Iowa State

9 Seeds                Ohio State, Alabama, Loyola Chicago, Davidson

10 Seeds              TCU, North Carolina, Virginia Tech, Wyoming,

11 Seeds              Miami (Fl), San Francisco, Rutgers, SMU/Indiana

12 Seeds              Texas A&M/Wake Forest, Chattanooga, UAB, New Mexico State

13 Seeds              Richmond, Vermont, South Dakota State, Cal State Fullerton

14 Seeds              Delaware, Georgia State, St Peters, Akron

15 Seeds              Yale, Jacksonville State, Longwood, Montana State

16 Seeds              Colgate, Norfolk State, Bryant / TX A&M CC, Texas Southern/Wright State

 

Last 4 in:  Texas A&M, SMU, Indiana, Wake Forest

First 5 Out:  Michigan, Xavier, Oklahoma, BYU, Notre Dame

 

Most likely to be wrong about:  Notre Dame…I don’t see how they have a tournament resume, but I seem to be in the minority. 

Team I think is more comfortably in than others seem to:  Wyoming.

 

Saturday, March 12, 2022

First Bracket Prediction 2022

 

1 Seeds                Kansas, Gonzaga, Arizona, Baylor

2 Seeds                Tennessee, Duke, Villanova, Kentucky

3 Seeds                Auburn, Purdue, UCLA, Wisconsin

4 Seeds                Texas Tech, Iowa, Illinois, Providence

5 Seeds                Houston, Arkansas, UConn, Seton Hall

6 Seeds                St. Marys, Boise State, Memphis, USC

7 Seeds                Murray St., San Diego State, Texas, LSU

8 Seeds                Colorado State, Creighton, Marquette, Iowa State

9 Seeds                Ohio State, Alabama, Loyola Chicago, Davidson

10 Seeds              TCU, North Carolina, Virginia Tech, Wyoming,

11 Seeds              Miami (Fl), San Francisco, Rutgers, Texas A&M

12 Seeds              SMU/Michigan, Indiana/Wake Forest, Chattanooga, UAB

13 Seeds              New Mexico State, Vermont, South Dakota State, Princeton

14 Seeds              Long Beach State, Delaware, Georgia State, St Peters

15 Seeds              Akron, Jacksonville State, Longwood, Montana State

16 Seeds              Colgate, Norfolk State, Bryant / TX A&M CC, Texas Southern/Wright State

 

Last 4 in:  SMU, Indiana, Wake Forest, Michigan

First 4 Out:  Xavier, Oklahoma, BYU, Notre Dame

 

Most likely to be wrong about:  Notre Dame…I don’t see how they have a tournament resume, but I seem to be in the minority. 

Team I think is more comfortably in than others seem to:  Wyoming

 

Ranking the Bubble 2022

 Here's my bubble rankings...  I included Creighton who actually is probably higher than some teams not on my bubble at this point, but I had already done most of their write-up before their Big East run.  Everyone above this list I think will definitely be in the tournament.  The list goes from most likely to make it to least likely to make it. Assuming Davidson wins the Atlantic 10, Michigan is my last team in the field.

 

Ranking the Bubble

Creighton- When I started this I wasn’t sure they would make it, but the trip to the Big East tournament championship probably makes them a lock at this point.  They are 7-5 Q1 and 4-4 Q2.  They swept UConn, beat Nova at home and have a neutral court win over Providence.  They were 3-0 against Marquette.  Really their only issue is they were swept by bubble Xavier, but they gap between those teams is so big at this point it really doesn’t matter.

Davidson- You hope the committee rewards a team like this.  24-5 overall.  5-4 vs. Q1/Q2.  13-5 q1 through Q3.  They have had a neutral court win over Alabama (who will make the tournament) and a road win over bubble VCU.  They are 9-2 on the road.  The A10 is a good conference.  This resume should be enough.

TCU- Right behind Davidson in NET, but a completely different kind of resume.  They went 8-10 in the loaded Big 12 (every team is top 75).  5-7 Q1, 4-3 Q2, 13-11 Q1 through Q3.  A couple of those are elite wins, beating Kansas and Texas Tech.  We also shouldn’t downplay the win at Hilton against Iowa State.  They’ve probably done enough as well.

North Carolina- The Duke win likely put them over the top.  5-7 Q1/Q2 record is iffy, but 16-0 Q2/Q3 is going to help.   They played a pretty strong schedule.  They won at Duke and at VT for their 2 Q1 wins.  It’s not an overly impressive resume, but there isn’t too much bad on it.  Their win at Cameron should be enough to get them in the field. 

Wyoming- The weakest resume of the 4 potential Mountain West bids, but honestly, it’s a tournament worthy resume.  4-4 Q1 is better than most the bubble and they combine that with a 6-1 Q2 record.  None of their Q1 wins are tier 1 type wins (their best is probably home against Colorado State and Boise State), but it’s a reasonably strong resume and the kind the committee should and likely will reward. 

San Francisco- Likely not in as good of shape as their 25 NET ranking would let you believe, but a team that should sneak in the field nonetheless.  3-6 Q1 isn’t great.  6-2 Q2 is fine.  Combined 14-8 against Q1-Q3 is going to be better than much of the lesser bubble teams.  Of course they did a lot of their damage against 1 bubble team (BYU).  They do have a nice neutral court win against Davidson and are 7-2 on the road. 

Miami (Fl)- Remember not to overvalue the actual NET ranking (Miami sits at 61).  It’s the strength of wins and losses that ultimately get a team in the field (even if the committee doesn’t always evaluate that properly).  Miami is 4-3 in Q1 games which is going to look good compared to the rest of the bubble.  That 5-4 Q2 record isn’t hurting them either.  They won at Duke, at bubble teams Virginia Tech and Wake Forest, as well as a neutral site win over North Texas.  They have home wins over bubble teams UNC and Wake Forest.  They also beat Wake on the road which probably puts them above Wake in the pecking order.

Virginia Tech- The trip the ACC Championship game just might do the trick.  They are only 2-5 Q1 and 6-5 Q2.  But they are really strong in the predictive metrics, so strong that I think it will and should make a difference.  2 wins over bubble Notre Dame and a recent neutral court win over UNC should help.  Despite only going 11-9 in the ACC, I think they have a better version of the Notre Dame resume (unbalanced schedules can make for wonky conference results). 

 

Rutgers – The lowest NET team that has a shot at the tournament.  They were abysmal in the nonconference (and it was an abysmal nonconference schedule).  However, they went 12-8 in a loaded big ten.  They were 6-6 against Q1 teams at that included wins over Iowa, Purdue, Illinois and Wisconsin.  Their road record is pretty bad (4-9) but those wins are over Wisconsin, Michigan, Indiana and Maryland.  I think they’ll find a spot at the end of the bracket. 

Texas A&M- Probably out before the SEC tournament, but I suspect they played their way to the right side of the bubble.  4-9 Q1 but 5-0 Q2 for a respectable 9-9 Q1/Q2 record.  They are 5-5 on the road and did some damage in neutral site games getting Auburn and Arkansas in the SEC tournament as well as a nice win over Notre Dame.  The more I look at their resume, the more I think they have done enough.

SMU- Their predictive metrics and resume metrics mostly look like a tournament team.  I think they should be in.  They are 2-2 Q1 and 4-4 Q2.  That’s not a lot of Q1/Q2 wins and the committee typically penalizes teams that get fat on Q3/Q4 teams.  Their nonconference SOS of 273 won’t do them any favors.  They have 2 wins over Memphis and a win over Houston.  You’d hope that would carry some weight.  They also have a win over Dayton who will be close to the bubble.  I kind of think they’ll sneak in, but wouldn’t be surprised if they didn’t. 

Indiana- They weren’t a tournament team prior to the big ten tournament, the question now is, did they do enough?  They’re 4-8 Q1, 4-4 Q2.  That’s a cut line style resume.  Most of their Q1 losses are upper tier Q1 losses.  They have a win over Purdue and a neutral court win over Illinois.  Their neutral court win over Notre Dame could come in handy if they are among the last couple teams considered. 

Wake Forest- They have a really iffy resume.  1-4 against Q1, 4-3 Q2.  Their best wins are road VT, and home against UNC and Notre Dame.  This is an end of the bracket team or a team that just misses. 

Michigan- Only 5-10 against Q1 and 3-3 against Q2.  How much credit will the committee give to playing a ton of Q1 games, when you lose a bunch of them.  The home win over Purdue is great.  So is the home win of San Diego State.  They have a couple nice road scalps as well, beating OSU and Indiana.  They’ll probably be right at the cutline. 

Xavier-  If you took their resume and shook it up, spreading everything over the course of the season evenly you may feel better about it (which is why they could still sneak in).  They are 5-8 Q1, 4-3 Q2 (so under .500 Q1/Q2) and have a couple Q3.  The sweep of Creighton is nice and the neutral site win over Virginia Tech could carry some weight against another bubble team.  They are a cutline type team that really depends on how committed the committee is to the entire body of work.  If there is any eye test for the team they are now, they are going to be left out.

Oklahoma- 18-15 is going to be tough to get past, but the Big 12 is unbelievably deep and really tough at the top.  Despite those losses they sit 39 NET.  They just beat Baylor, who could be a 1 seed, have a win over Texas Tech and beat Arkansas on a neutral floor.  They are 4-12 against Q1 teams and 6-2 Q2.  It’s a marginal resume and probably too many losses but they could sneak in. 

BYU- Another team at the end of the bracket, that I’m skeptical did enough.  They are definitely behind San Francisco in the pecking order.  The home St Marys win is great, but other than that there isn’t quite enough there.  The loss to Pacific hurts.  I’d be fine if they got in above a Michigan type team that has more but also had a ton more opportunities to get there, but I think they are more likely to be just outside. 

Notre Dame-  I honestly don’t see how you can put this team in the tournament.  The Kentucky win is great and the win at Miami is nice, but this team is 4-9 in Q1/Q2 games.  They got fat against bad teams going 17-1 in Q3/Q4.  They also have 3 neutral court losses to teams that will be near the cutline (Virginia Tech, Indiana, and Texas A&M).  You have to think that carries some weight when the committee tries to evaluate the end of the bracket.  They went 15-5 in the ACC so maybe the committee will value that, but when you did deep this team doesn’t have a tournament resume.

Dayton- Their case really comes down to how much the committee cares about bad losses.  Dayton has 3 really bad ones (3 losses to teams 248 and below in NET) and a loss to NET 226 on the road.  Those losses really get in the way of a lot of good.  Their 3-2 in Q1 games and those wins are Kansas (neutral), Virginia Tech (Home) and VCU (road).  They are 6-5 in Q2 games including wins over tournament teams Miami (fl) and Davidson.  Their Q1/Q2 record and wins is going to be better than most the bubble, but those bad losses are a huge anchor on the resume.  The committee mostly values your wins more than your losses so I could see Dayton sneaking in, but bubble teams don’t usually have bad losses to this level and ultimately I think it will keep them out.

VCU-  They have the opposite problem of Dayton.  They did great against the bad teams but don’t have enough good wins.  They are 3-3 against Q1 teams (fine) but only 3-5 against Q2 teams.  Mid major teams really need to be over .500 against Q1/Q2 to give themselves a chance.  I think they are out.

UAB- They made their conference championship.  They sit 49 NET (and right around there in the predictive metrics).  They are only 4-3 Q1/Q2 and racked up 12 Q4 wins.  That typically doesn’t cut it.

North Texas- Similar resume to UAB.  They are 6-4 against Q1/Q2, so there is a little more, but they have 11 Q4 wins.  Probably not enough.

 

 

Thursday, February 10, 2022

My Dad and the 2002 Cincinnati Bearcats

 




In December 2001, my parents told me that my dad had maybe a month to live.  He’d been fighting a battle with large mouth throat cancer for nearly 5 years.  The battle had some ups and surely a lot of downs, but my dad did his best to hide the latter from my sister and me. 

Christmas came and went, not much seemed to change.  My dad wasn’t working anymore, but I was still able to spend time with him and he seemed fine all things considered.  To my parents’ credit they made life as normal as it could be for my sister and me.  We’d be out with friends often, living our lives like everyone else.  We entered February, the conversation about my dad having maybe a month to live drifted to the back of my mind. 

Time is a funny thing.  It’s been twenty years since I lost my dad.  I remember so much about him.  I remember how he made me feel, what he cared about, how much he loved our family.  I remember his love of song lyrics, the way he laughed and joked with his best friend and his love of the ocean.  So many things, so easily come to mind, but conversations, few of those remain.  How do you remember individual conversations?  

                Sunday, February 10, 2002 was the last conversation I had with my dad.  It was in his room, where he spent much of his time late in life.  I had no idea it would be our last conversation.  Truthfully, it felt like any other... but I remember it, nonetheless.  I remember because the 2002 Bearcats were at the center of it. 

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                The Cincinnati Bearcats lost a road game at Oklahoma State to open the 2001-2002 season then proceeded to run off 20 straight wins.  In those 20 games they accumulated 10 wins over kenpom top 100 teams, including a 22 point win over #42 Dayton, a 34 point win over #26 Mississippi State, a 23 point win over #40 Charlotte, and a 20 point win at the Cintas Center against #23 Xavier (still the last Bearcat win at Cintas).  But the streak ended against Dwyane Wade at Marquette. 

                The Bearcats had a difficult schedule still ahead of them and with CUSA probably at its talent and coaching peak, winning the conference was suddenly a more daunting proposition.  The Marquette loss was the first of a 3-game road trip against NCAA tournament teams.  Cincinnati recovered nicely at Charlotte winning by 19 in an arena where they always seemed to struggle.  Then they went to play a rare, late season nonconference game against Wake Forest. 

                Wake Forest was coached by Skip Process and led by future NBA starter Josh Howard and Darius Songaila.  This would be a great test for a team fighting for high seed in the tournament.  At the time Wake was ranked 16th in the country coming off a 90-66 win over UNC (completing their first sweep of North Carolina in 32 years).  It was a big game.

                And the Bearcats were up for it.  While Huggins’ teams were known for their defense, this Cincinnati team could be incredibly explosive.  Steve Logan scored 30 and had 7 assists, while the Bearcats put up 61 second half points in beating Wake Forest 103 to 94.  It was an up and down, thrilling basketball game (one that I’d love to watch again if anyone can find it).  After watching the game, I remember thinking, damn this Bearcat team is for real and hoping that maybe, just maybe…this would be their year. 

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                My dad wasn’t so sure.  He never was.  And of course, looking back at history he was right.  I don’t remember where I was that Saturday night, surely, I was at some friend’s house, but Sunday night I went into my dad’s room to talk and the one part of the conversation I remember to this day was about the Bearcats.  We talked about how well they played.  I was optimistic they could win the league again and get a high seed.  I raved about Logan and Imac.  My dad didn’t think they quite had enough and figured something would go wrong. 

I laugh thinking about it, because the conversation was so true to the often-pessimistic way he watched (and listened) to games (he was a worrier, one of the few traits I managed not to inherit from him).  I remember coming home from somewhere during the UC at Wyoming game in 1994.  UC was down 9 with like a minute and a half to play.  We were almost home, but my dad couldn’t listen for one more second.  He turned off the radio over my vocal, 9-year-old, objections.  As soon as we pulled into the driveway I burst out of the car, ran into the house and turned on the TV.  I was just in time to see The Gunslinger get fouled shooting a 3 and hit the winning free throws.  I missed his crazy run of points to put them in position to win.   



8 years later we were in his room talking about another Bearcat basketball team.  My optimism about the team contrasting with his worried thoughts about what could go wrong for them.  I know we talked about other things that night, but the Bearcats is what I remember.  It was such a normal conversation, but probably for that reason, such a special memory.

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                The 2002 Bearcats are my favorite UC team of my lifetime.  I know the 2000 team was more dominant (though fans probably don’t appreciate how dominant the 2002 was…we’ll get to this), but I loved the way this team played basketball.  And I think it’s special to me in another way…a deeply personal way.

My dad passed away on February 14, 2002.  He was 52 years old.  February 14 was a Thursday, but everything turned on a Monday.  From the time I was told my dad may have a month to live until Monday February 11, nothing really changed.  Then I came home from school and my mom told me that my dad’s body was breaking down.  He could pass away any day. 

My dad rested in his room, unconscious, unable to respond the next three days.  His brother came up from North Carolina to be with the family.  My dad seemed at peace, but there was no hope of him coming back around.  We all knew this was it. 

                Despite five years of knowing it could happen and despite the warning three months prior that he might not make it through the year, the sudden impact of the loss of your father is impossible for me to describe.  In the days after my dad passed, I did my best to go on living my life.  I was out with friends; I went to work that weekend and I attended two of my all-time favorite Bearcat basketball games. 

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                The Bearcats hosted Dwyane Wade’s Marquette team knowing a conference championship could be at stake.  The game took place on a Friday night.  I went with one of my best friends to this day.  Our seats ended up being behind a row of Marquette fans.  The Bearcats came out white hot early, building a 20-4 lead.  But that lead evaporated just as quickly with Marquette tying it at 24.  Cincinnati expanded the lead to 10 before the half but again Marquette responded taking the lead early in the second half. 

                It was a battle throughout the second half.   Every possession intense.  The Shoe was rocking.  The lead changed back and forth, but with 1:16 to play the Bearcats found themselves on the brink of defeat down 4 points.  Logan responded, like he did all season, hitting a pull up 2.  Marquette answered right back with a two of their own.  UC again found themselves down 4, this time with 30 seconds left.  But Logan pushed the ball up court, crossing his man up (with the slightest Jordan shove) to the point his man fell on his ass and Logan knocked down a 3.  24 seconds left and the lead was one.

                UC fouled Wade, who missed the front end of the one and one with a raucous Shoemaker Center doing everything it could to will the miss.  From the upper deck I was ready for some more Steve Logan magic.  He’d been a force at the end of games the last 2 seasons.  There was nobody I trusted more. 

                Huggins let the possession play out.  No timeout was called.  But with 10 seconds left, Logan gave the ball up.  Now Immanuel McCelroy had it.  Imac was a defensive stalwart, who also had a knack for huge plays.  He dribbled it from the corner to the top of key and then tried to attack.  Marquette defenders converged.  He passed.

                With 6 seconds left the ball found the hands of Donald Little, 18 feet from the basket.  He was wide open, but he wasn’t exactly the guy you wanted taking the huge shot.  Little squared.  Little elevated.  Little released……………………………………………….Splash!

                And the Shoe went ballistic.  Little had been huge early in the game and came through with his biggest shot as a Bearcat.  The Bearcats now had 3 seconds to finish it.  Cincinnati didn’t guard the inbounds, Marquette threw it to Henry who back rimmed a 40-footer at the buzzer.   I turned to celebrate with my friend who was already running down to fake high five the row of Marquette fans below us as they left. Cincinnati was now a game ahead of Marquette in the conference.




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                At some point in 2002 the West Virginia job opened.  Everyone knew they were going after Huggins and there were a lot of rumors that he was going to take it.  Amidst that backdrop, the 2002 Bearcats hosted Memphis, trying to close out another outright Conference USA Championship.  A talented, but underachieving Calipari coached team gave the Bearcats everything they could handle all afternoon. 

                Dejaun Wagner and Steve Logan went back and forth.  Memphis built an 8-point lead, but Logan just wouldn’t let it get beyond that.  The Bearcats missed all 16 of their threes, but Logan’s mid-range game could be fierce.  Again, the Bearcats found themselves trailing late, needing some heroics to pull off another win.

                I sat in baseline/courtside seating for this game.  At that time UC had desk seats behind the baseline on both sides of the basket right next to where the cheerleaders sat.  Down 2 late, UC needed to go the length of the court.  They inbounded to Logan, and he did just that.  He ran toward me, pulled up from around the foul line and buried it to force OT.  I cheered with the friend I took to the game, then ran behind my seats giving high fives to the front row of students.  The place was as loud as I have ever heard it. 

Let’s talk about just how damn great Steve Logan was in 2002.  You’ve read about some of his enormous shots in those two games, but Logan had the best offensive season in modern Bearcat history.  He was a consensus first team all-American, and frankly should have been National Player of the Year.  He had a 29.4% usage rate and took 30.7% of his team’s shots when he was on the floor.  Despite carrying that kind of offensive load, he had a ridiculous 60% True Shooting Percentage, just bonkers for a guard, particularly for one his stature.  Taking 229 threes, many off the dribble, he made 38% of them.  He was 87% from the line and perhaps most impressively 52% from 2.  Everything was a good shot for Steve Logan.  But he wasn’t just asked to score, he facilitated everything.  He had a 32% assist rate (with only a 14.3% turnover rate).  He rarely fouled, constantly got fouled and played nearly 85% of the minutes.  He did it all and a Bearcat offense with merely decent offensive talent outside of Steve Logan was elite because of it. 

And he and his Bearcats found a way to win in overtime against Memphis, clinching another conference championship and keeping the dream of a 1 seed alive.  Nobody wanted to leave.  We didn’t know if this would be Huggins’ last home game.  And as the Shoe went bonkers after the game, Huggins made it clear it wouldn’t, coming back on the floor and telling the crowd he would be back.  The place went bonkers. 

The Bearcats would roll through the conference tournament, dump trucking South Florida (73 kenpom) 79-57, then beating Charlotte and Marquette (both tournament teams) by 16 and 14, respectively.  This earned them a one seed. 

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                In the second round of the NCAA tournament UC drew an underachieving UCLA team that was one of the most talented in the country.  UCLA had future NBA players, Matt Barnes, Jason Kapono, Dan Gadzuric and Cedric Bozeman.  They had several WTF losses, but also had 9 wins over kenpom top 40 teams including a 1 seed (Kansas), two 2 seeds (Oregon and Alabama) a 3 seed (Arizona) and a 4 seed (Southern Cal).  And good UCLA showed up that day. 

                Frankly, as talented as UCLA was (and they were the more talented team), Cincinnati was the better team throughout.  But it seemed like every damn break went against them to keep UCLA in it.  Whether it was Knight’s banked in 3 from the corner or the late shot clock airball falling into Kapono’s lap, UC couldn’t quite finish UCLA.  The game went to 2 OTs with UC having chances to win the game at the end of regulation and the first OT, before UCLA pulled it out.  A painful end, to an incredible season, made more so because it truly was one of the only tournament losses I left the game thinking, “wow, we played a damn good basketball game…and they still somehow beat us.” 

                What sucks about it, is that Bearcat team was absolutely positioned to have a chance to win the National Championship.  They were viewed as the 4th best one seed going into the tournament and the 2 seed in their region (Kelvin Sampson’s Oklahoma team) was viewed basically as their equal, but the kenpom numbers actually suggest they were the second-best team (ahead of the Maryland team that won it).  They were balanced, 7th in adjust offensive efficiency and 3rd in adjusted defensive efficiency.  On offense they did everything well (64th in EFG%, 12th in Turnover rate, 53rd in OFF Reb Rt, 92 in FTA/FGA).  They shot well from 3, from 2 and from the foul line.  On defense they did everything well except forcing turnovers (where they were just average).  They were first in EFG% D, 59th in DefRebRt and 40th in FTA/FGA.  They didn’t give up many threes and were the best team in the country defending from 2.  This was a team that in retrospect was even better than we realized.  Still my favorite Bearcat team of my lifetime. 

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                And after the loss to UCLA, I remembered my dad was right.  Something went wrong, it always did.  I still think I was right that they were good enough to win the title, but good enough doesn’t always get you there, as Bearcat basketball fans have learned over the years.  But not only was that a great team, it was a team that brought me pure joy during one of the hardest times of my life. 

Growing up I would go to UC football and basketball games with my dad.  We only had UC basketball season tickets a couple years (Wingfield’s Freshman year then Fortson’s freshman year), but it was always a favorite memory of mine.  My dad worked at UC.  My mom, my sister and I would drive to Kenwood mall to meet my dad then he and I would drive back down to Clifton for the game.  I’d usually grab some Chick-fil-a or Sbbaro before we headed down. 

After my dad passed, that 2002 team was the perfect escape, their brilliance capturing my attention game after game.  Since then, Bearcat sports often make me think of my dad, giving me a connection to him, long after I lost him.  He went to grad school at UC, he worked at UC, we attended games together at UC.  He struggled with the after affects of his surgery in 1997 and many different forms of treatment those last 5 years, but in those spurts where he felt good enough, he still went back to work at UC.  During his Eulogy, his best friend noted that when he went back to work at the College of Business his friends and colleagues stood by him as he struggled with the debilitating side effects of his cancer.  Just another aspect of the university and its people I’ll always love. 



The university has continued to mean a ton to me.  The Bearcat football and Bearcat programs, especially so.  This 2002 team above them all. 

It’s been 20 years since I lost my dad.  My son now shares his name.  The world needed another Gary Raines.  You never know what moments will stand out in your mind when someone is gone.  I think about what I’ll tell me kids about their grandfather they will never get to meet.  I want to tell them everything, but I dread telling them too soon.  I worry about the questions that may come when I tell them about losing my father.  

I think about him often, this time of year more than most.  I think of him on holidays.  I think of him at the beach.  I think of him when my kids do something new, when I listen to a song with just the right lyrics, or when I’m around his friends.  I miss him.  I wish my wife and children knew him.  But I’m grateful for the near 18 years we had together.  I’m thankful for the things he taught me and the things we shared.  I’m thankful that during the most trying of circumstances he and my mom kept my life as normal as possible. 

And I’m thankful we had that one last conversation, without knowing what the next days would bring.  I wish he’d been wrong, and the 2002 Bearcats had gone the distance, but it’s probably appropriate he was right.  How else could things have gone?  Memories are all I have left of my dad, but I know the impact he made on me and continues to make on the family I am raising.  And though we’ll never actually talk again, that one last conversation, will always be there too.